Relationship are give take. You give your time, thoughts, consideration, care and love your partner and then you except something in return. But people are different. Some of us give more while others give less. Some except  to receive more, while others are more than OK with receiving less than they give. Sometimes, what we’re willing to give and accept in return doesn’t align with how much our lover is willing to give and accept. When this happens, the relationship becomes filled with heated arguments, frustrating emotions and more tears than smiles.

8 Things Never Stop Asking for in Your Relationship

“PRESENCE” The only thing worse than having a lover that’s never there is having one that’s not there mentally when he or she is there physically. Noticing the person you love isn’t there with you in the moment hurts like hell. You finally have some time together, yet it feels like you’re even further apart. It’s not always easy to shut off all the crap going on in our livest, but these moments make life worth living. Ask you partner to be with you when he or she with you, to really try to focus on the two of you at that very second. Don’t just do it for you; do it for the one you love.

“TIME” In this day and age just about everyone has passions and goals they’re pursuing outside of the relationship. Finding the right balance between work and love life is the only way to achieve happiness. If you’re not getting enough time with the person you love, let him or her know. Of course, be considerate of what he or she wants to accomplish, and make compromises when acceptable. But if things are crossing a line, then let your partner know. People think love will last no matter what, but nothing cloud be further from the truth. If you allow yourself to spend too much time apart, the space you create will become permanent.

“CONSIDERATION” Being in a relationship with some means being considerate. Sure, you can split decisions to make things more efficient. However, you should be part of all the important decisions. Don’t be afraid to let your partner know you want to be a larger part of the decision making process.

“EMPATHY” You’d think we’d be able to always empathize with the one we love. And usually, we’re good at it. That is, until life gets in the way. At the end of the day, we’re egocentric beings. We live life through our own eyes and no Else’s. Yet being in a romantic relationship means we need to do our best to put ourselves in the  shoes of the person we love. Empathy is the channel love flows through. It’s the way our souls communicate, the connection allowing for that initial spark. It’s also something that we need to remember to keep working on, especially when our personal lives become convoluted by trivialities. Remind the person you love that he or she needs to always try to understand how you’re feeling.

“EFFORT” At the end of the day, the only thing you can really ask for is true effort. People aren’t perfect. You’re just as flawed as your better half. We make mistakes. We lose touch with the relationship is only a natural conclusion. We spend most of our lives losing ourselves and finding ourselves all over again. Why would you think a relationship is any is any different?. This is not about how far things seem to be different away from you. This is about how much of an effort you’re both making to keep the love you have alive. If you don’t think your partner is making an effort, then say so. Ask him or her to put you ahead of all the other things he or she has going on. Of course, be reasonable and willing to compromise. But help your partner understand that without and effort, there’s no real reason to stay part of each other’s lives.

“NOVELTY” Relationships start falling apart the moment we decide we’re happy with things exactly as they are. This is not to say you shouldn’t be happy with the way things are, because you should be, but you should always be aiming to experience new things together. What’s the goal of your relationship?? if it’s to get married, have kids and grow old together. then your relationship is going to fail. Big goals are certainly important, but what’s more important are the little goals we can create for ourselves everyday.

8 Things Never Stop Asking for in Your Relationship: Passion thrives on novelty. It’s comport and complacency that kills. If things are starting to feel a bit bland, don’t be afraid to ask to spice things up. It’s funny. If we all just learned to use our words and ask for the things we want in life, we’d all be a whole lot happier. Countless relationship fail because neither person asks for what they want. People are either too afraid to ask or think they shouldn’t have to ask.

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8 Things Never Stop Asking for in Your Relationship

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